My Journey Of Pregancy In The 2nd Time

  My elder son's treatment was running for 5 yrs at Tata Hospital Bombay. Means he need complete 5 yrs to mentance physically, mentally and in all direction. He was so small that no need of any mental treatment. Still all testes have been finished. 

  After 5 yrs we have decided for 2 nd chance. But, still we need to go Bombay for his maintaince. In the 6 th month of my 2 nd pregnancy I would have to go to Bombay for his check up and to take injections. At that time my husband had got Govt job so he can't come with us. Then we decided to go with my elders brother's wife. Kojagiri poornima was there. Our reservation was not confirmed. But we must have to go as Dr. Had given date. After that date we have to suffer there. 

  Then started to travel by train my husband only told bogi no. of train and tickets given. When we enter in the coach there was ladies of Bombay who were came to Tuljapur for bhajan. That coach was full. There was no place to keep feet in the coach. Now how can I manage this ?If we will talk any word all ladies are started to fight. Any way we went Bombay by standing. Only we got space to sleep my son. 

 Then in the next day we have hurry to go in the hospital. We took bath ,took brakefast and run to the hospital. Then there was tons of tastes need to run everywhere. But we have done it. 

   In the next day we need to return back. At that time there's no internet to do ticket booking. No any offices near to place. We need to go CST station to make booking and come back and go to station next day . Then I have done it alone by keeping son in the hostel with his mami. 

  In the next day we decided to seat from Dadar. As ticket was confirmed. But how was that ticket 1 was 9 no. Coach and another was 16 . Now what can we do? My brother's wife was refusing to seat alone. As she was travelling first time by train. Now I requested to some passengers to exchange but noone is ready. There was no TC to manage it. He was coming late. Then I told  her you sleep on 9th no . I will go to 16 no. Then I took to my son started to run to 16 from inside but after some coaches ran there's was A. C . Coach they are not opening the door so I stand there with my son and bag. 

   When Kalyan station announced I decided to get down start to catch 16 no. Coach. Then I took my son in my arm with bag and started to run 16 no. Coach. Atlast I caught 16 no. Coach ,found my seat and getting to sleep. 

  Then we reached to Latur ,In the next day I  went to Vivekanda Hospital to check up my baby as I have continuously white discharge. When I visited Dr. She had done my sonography and told you need to take complete bed rest. 

   Now I came to my home and told to family members. There's my husband's brother's wife. She told this is Sasar we can't give you bed rest you need to go to your parents home to take bed rest. In this journey I thought that what will happen to my 2nd baby? 

  Still I decided to go by bus. My parents home is in the village there's was no buses to go there. Now how can I go with my son?Secrets of prayer ebook . But how I managed I forgot it. ! 

Difference Difference Between Indian and Abroad Lifestyle

 It’s very magically thinking . When we are comparing our life with abroad life style. I am not telling that abroad things are worse . Or their life style is not good. I like their discipline , good manners , running life with self respect, working hard etc. But how these people are running their life I want to explain.

We take life very easy. They are taking life very serious. We think that remaining happy, creating love for family members, doing something for family members, working for them, devotion for God creates automatically satisfaction. If we are getting satisfaction we didn’t think more.
We Indian never think about more money. So that India can't progress. In my childhood I remember so many don’t have money. But they were so happy. No one carry B P, sugar, loneliness , feeling heaviness etc. Whatever maybe with you distribute it to others and see the magic of life. This was thinking in our childhood. I think it was not only for family but for each and every organization.
Nowadays since I came on the internet and getting me 75% article on life management. Means people are living only for self life . To full fill their dreams it's not bad but with it they are cc leaving daily life. They didn’t think broadly . In the life something is there. We must have to attend that.
Also they are searching for happiness. I think the people who knows how to be happy naturally they never search happiness here on the internet. How to be happy?

Indian’s are taking life lightly. They were running with God’s faith not at all, some people. They think that interacting with neighbors , friends, relatives, our city members means life. Or celebrating festivals ,rituals can create happiness. It doesn’t mean they are not creating dreams. We can also create dreams but to achieve it we are not leaving daily life. Daily life means above things which I have explained. Suppose they have decided to travel or Yatra. But they can’t by plane. They will never shy if so, we will go by train. Why to worry? Why to take any tensions? We will go next time by plane. Is we are doing anything wrong?
One more example I will tell here. In my neighborhood one engineer who had chemical engineer job had married and left India went to Canada. Leaving behind her widow mother, 4 sisters. I am telling this to you and my eyes are filled with tears. Maybe he is earning crore’s of rupees there. Can he will enjoy happiness of his family members? That is his sisters, mother. His father was died when he was small. His mother have done a lot of efforts to complete his education. His sisters have done job to complete his education. And he left everyone not contacting to his family members too. His mother is always crying. Really I can’t explain that sorrow Now tell me what is the use of this life? How did his loved one will send him blessings. If he couldn’t do any responsibility for them? Is he will get complete happiness with his bank balance and material things? If he maybe can’t complete his responsibilities with his job. He can talk lovingly via video call. He can ask for her needs. He will take care with love from  there too. But nothing. In Marathi we say it is Asuri Anand . Can only material things gives us more happiness than human being?
That’s the difference between 2 cultures. We create happiness in less. You are searching happiness in more. You are searching we are creating. It doesn’t mean we have to create less but in any situation we are happy.
We are creating more in less and abroad s are creating less in more and so today’s people are becoming narrow minded. How much maybe they have thinking less. It’s very very sad to tell. So we are losing faith in relationship, creating a lot of distance in the relationship. We are not thinking about our closer one how can we will support to neighbor? Friends, relatives and saying why did we are feeling alone and sad?
How Progress We Have Made !

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