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                                                                 Our   Relationships

Nowadays we always say that  it is difficult to handle relationship. How could enjoy our relationship with different  opinion ?

     Let us we will see ,

           Relations means i create a picture in my mind how my daughter in law should be? How my son should be? & Son create the image that How my father should be?

           The image that create the person through his behavior, thoughts & by his perception, if it    will not match with  his relationship then it will produce conflicts as i am doing constantly match the following. My daughter in law should be same as that serials heroine . If my daughter in law is not like this. & not behaving also like this. This produces irritations in my family & so my relationship gets disturb.

                 If you want our relationship should be strong then you accept the other person as it is,

let go for the other persons behavior.& give him guidance lovingly.

Some following points makes our relationship difficult.

1] Jealousy create barrier in our relationship. If i am jealous to anyone means i feel inferior, i feel depress, i feel low, i feel weak, i feel not getting so i behave differently. & so my relationship gets disturb.

**************                                                          **THE MIRACLE OF PEACE **

Peace is spirituality.

Peace  is  simplicity  .

Peace brings satisfaction.

Peace makes you smile.

Peace is sweetness.

Peace is stability.

Peace creates solution.

Peace makes you strong.

Peace makes you stress free.

Peace makes you sing in happiness.

Peace creates your inner stress.

Peace makes you scare.

Peace is having sympathy.

Peace brings safety.

Peace is solitude.

Peace is stillness of mind.

Peace is having  self respect.

Peace makes you spontaneous.

Peace enables you  to  know

all  secrets of life.

                              ** ABOUT  WORRY**

‘’Worry’’ Worry is the misuse of power then why do we are  getting  worry?

           When we get up in the morning we feel fresh as we have lot of storage of energy but what type of energy we are using throughout the day is the choice of ours.

       When we are worrying then we are loosing our creativity, so that we feel heavy at the end of the day, as we have used energy for worry & therefore worry is the misuse of power.

    Some people thinks that worry must be there ,if worry is not there ,care is also not there & how can we do our work without worrying & caring ?

       Nowadays so many parents are worrying about their children like their studies, carriers, jobs, personalities etc &  they are teaching their children also how can be worry?

   Sometimes we carry some stories from past to future but we don’t control past & future, so we can controlling ourselves which is not in our control. & it creates pressure, stress, anger, anxiety etc.

  So many people worries about their daughters marriage. What  type of husband will get to my daughters? Are there relationships are good or not?

 How their family members behave? Etc.but if your self image is clean & clear & your daughter have good sansakar & self confidence then why did you are worrying?

 She could adjust & face any situation nicely.

     We often creates worst thoughts & becoming worry, this habit continue in our life & we are becoming a worrying man.

   I think our former President Dr.A.P.J. ABDUL KALAM may be worried about  our Parliament work & he has stress & pressure so heart fail happen.